You can do the following things to stop being his mistress:
- Begin locating other handsome and at the same time unmarried men.
This is the only way you can feel how good it is to be with a man who has real potentials of accomplishing your relationship goals. Although you might feel hurt leaving the married man.
- Do not sleep with he married man
The more you frequent sleeping with him, the more you bond and the harder it becomes for you to leave.
- Let the break-up be clean
You should have already planned what you are going to say, locate a place and tell him. Let this be fast, you shouldn’t take more than 30 minutes, don’t give him room to plead or whine. You are doing this for YOU.
- Let your support system be there for you
You need your family and friends more than ever. They are the people who will give you a shoulder to lean on. Let them support you for the next few months.
- Start the disengaging process
This depends on how long you’ve been together.
- Get your own place
- Block him
- Do away with things you own together or decide who will take the items
- Cut communication with his relatives and friends
- Locate new hangout points and joints.
- Stop cooking for him or contacting or checking in with him
You can’t do away with the relationship if you keep supporting him or giving him room to.
- Take care of yourself
Start doing things that make you happy. Make yourself look beautiful and stay healthy.
When you decided to be a man’s mistress, you stepped backward, it’s now time for you to move forward. Good future is waiting for you ahead.