Taking Your Relationship Slow

Most people will want to go slow when they start a new relationship, but some will wonder what going slow really means.

On one hand, you will want to get to know the person before you make a real commitment but on the other hand, if you are going too slow then chances are you will not know what you are ever to expect. All of this advice depends on who you are asking, and each person has their own opinion on it.

If you want to be on the same page on the emotional level, it is important that you understand the relationship and that you learn what taking it slow really means. Maybe you have been hurt in the past and you are worried about jumping into something too quickly and so you decide to go slow.

There are good things that can come to a relationship that you are not yet ready to commit to and this can mean that you do not tie yourself up emotionally in case things do not work out like you hoped.

Taking a relationship slow can be both positive and negative and you might need to understand exactly what you are hoping to accomplish in your relationship before you make a real choice on how fast or slow to go.

Going slow can work to your favor if you need to understand where the relationship is going.

Surface

If you are having a hard time of understanding the person that you are dating, chances are you need to go slow. Figure out what they are all about and figure out if they are going to be good for you. Do they respect you and have the ideas that you are wanting to have?  Make sure that you consider everything.

Sex

If you are attracted to someone sexually, you need to know if you are just in a passionate relationship or if you want things to be serious. You might want to consider going slower if you are wanting more out of your partners.

Connection

Spending time with someone and making a connection is important if you want to keep dating that person. You will want to know if you have the same interests and if you are in the relationship for the long run.

Everyone gets confused in relationships now and again and having sex is one thing that can cause more confusion. If you are connecting in ways beyond sex, this means they are not just a sexual partner.

Consistency

Having a relationship that is not consistent is based on lust and not love. You will know the difference between having an affair and looking for a real relationship.

When things are sexy and hot, you will be likely to move faster but when things are more consistent then you will want to take your time to get to know each other and build a foundation. Relationships that are there each day can be maintained by going slower.

If you have decided to take things slow then you will want to make sure that you know what that means. When you are on the same page with someone, you will be able to figure out what kind of relationship that you want.

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